Ron! I am so happy to see paintbrushes and a setup for painting. I know it's not checked off your list yet, but painting is the best type of play in my unbiased opinion (LOL). I'm hoping this activity will give you a fun outlet. As we discussed from your reaction to my essay, there is certainly hope and I think you'll find joy there.
I have had to-do lists for years and love them, especially when I check a task off. Painting is always on the list.
Beth, thanks for your considerate insights. I've not often allowed myself to enjoy art. I did a little beach diorama with water, sand, sky and clouds for our anniversary, and it was fun! Like you, I think I am a bit more drawn to the texture and swirl of the paint. Creating a scene, as you are doing, is surely a whole 'nother level. Your perspective on always learning is not lost on me!
I used to have a TO DO list. But now I rebel against being told what to do. I now (seriously) have a DONE list where I keep track of things I accomplished in a day. "Swept floor. Responded to emails. Cleaned out junk drawer. Wrote a poem." I tell you, reviewing that list feels so much better than the one telling me to get my ass in gear. Just saying...
How do we know our “ playtime” is not just laziness or procrastination? That is my conundrum 😅I try to get one necessary/adult kinda thing done each day…laundry✔️…and then write, organize, dance, read. Reading and writing on Substack has become my go-to. Okay to consider that necessary play!? 😁🤔
No judging here, Joan! As a certified daydreamer, I try not to admit to laziness or procrastination-probably use contemplative as my descriptor! But getting one adult thing done is probably helpful. Sounds like you're building play in there too, and keep up that writing when you want. We like it! 🙌🙏❤️
Yesss! I can imagine the crazy days with you and your family’s adventures! It's ok to facilitate that play for ourselves. One writer, Julie Cameron, calls it a ‘play date’; a permission to do a thing fun for us. Go play!
I think play is a habit and a mindset, at least when you’re an adult, and I’m far too out of practice! I like the idea of deliberately scheduling it. I’m going to try that!
Ron! I am so happy to see paintbrushes and a setup for painting. I know it's not checked off your list yet, but painting is the best type of play in my unbiased opinion (LOL). I'm hoping this activity will give you a fun outlet. As we discussed from your reaction to my essay, there is certainly hope and I think you'll find joy there.
I have had to-do lists for years and love them, especially when I check a task off. Painting is always on the list.
Beth, thanks for your considerate insights. I've not often allowed myself to enjoy art. I did a little beach diorama with water, sand, sky and clouds for our anniversary, and it was fun! Like you, I think I am a bit more drawn to the texture and swirl of the paint. Creating a scene, as you are doing, is surely a whole 'nother level. Your perspective on always learning is not lost on me!
I misplaced my to-do list so I started a new one this morning. So far: Find to-do list.
😂 Hopin' you can't find it!
Not searching too hard.
I used to have a TO DO list. But now I rebel against being told what to do. I now (seriously) have a DONE list where I keep track of things I accomplished in a day. "Swept floor. Responded to emails. Cleaned out junk drawer. Wrote a poem." I tell you, reviewing that list feels so much better than the one telling me to get my ass in gear. Just saying...
I know; climbed that hill-check!
If by chance I do something that wasn't on the list, I write it down then cross it out.
That is so ridiculous!
I've done that too.
I treat my retirement like being 5 again...playtime, mealtime, exercise time, nap time...can my friends come out and play?
It's annoying when I actually have to do some adult thing, like fix something or make an appointment or go shopping...😂
It is annoying- right!
I adored this write up, Ron, and I LOVE the photos, especially the last one. That little girl just captured my heart with her smile.
Thank you for sharing!
Thank you C.J. You're surely welcome. Yep that little one was having ‘some fun!’
You’re welcome, Ron.
Great post --I love your photos!
That makes me happy, C. J.! I once wanted to be a photographer! Thanks for your kind words. 😏
You’re very welcome, Ron —you can still pursue photography you know. You have an eye for it.
I appreciate it, C.J. Alot of the pics inspire the posts.
💕❤️ I can see where they would inspire.
How do we know our “ playtime” is not just laziness or procrastination? That is my conundrum 😅I try to get one necessary/adult kinda thing done each day…laundry✔️…and then write, organize, dance, read. Reading and writing on Substack has become my go-to. Okay to consider that necessary play!? 😁🤔
No judging here, Joan! As a certified daydreamer, I try not to admit to laziness or procrastination-probably use contemplative as my descriptor! But getting one adult thing done is probably helpful. Sounds like you're building play in there too, and keep up that writing when you want. We like it! 🙌🙏❤️
😅contemplative! That’s my new favorite word! You always know just what to say, sweet man! Hugs for making me smile once again! 🤗😊
🙏 so welcome!
Amen!! Play is not “extra.” I’m good at making time and space for others to play, but not so much myself…I definitely need to play more.
Yesss! I can imagine the crazy days with you and your family’s adventures! It's ok to facilitate that play for ourselves. One writer, Julie Cameron, calls it a ‘play date’; a permission to do a thing fun for us. Go play!
I think play is a habit and a mindset, at least when you’re an adult, and I’m far too out of practice! I like the idea of deliberately scheduling it. I’m going to try that!
Paint and play! Love it!😍
Yep, let’s go find some paint!
Looks like a cozy, creative spot you have there!
Trust me, it doesn't generally look this way! Thank you, Brenda!
I do understand…creativity kinda spills outside the lines doesn't it!
Wow! Sounds like a great plan, Ron. You may be onto something. Stress relief through finger painting. Let us know how it goes!
My goal is the end picture, Sharron!
Easy peasey
Same! I've been “playing” all morning crafting Christmas decorations for my brother.
Now you're talking; good job Kim! 🎁